🌙 About Me

Hi, I’m Bailz.
Witchy, weird, and working on it.

Welcome to my cozy little corner of the internet where I document the messy, magical, deeply human process of trying to come home to myself.

I’m 35 years old, married to the love of my life, and currently living in Texas with our two dogs and an ever-growing plant collection. I’m a writer, creator, recovering people-pleaser, and late-diagnosed neurodivergent woman learning how to trust herself in real time.

This blog was born during a major life shift—a moment when I realized I was done shape-shifting for approval and finally ready to figure out who I really am underneath the masks.

Here, you’ll find essays and reflections about healing, self-compassion, books that change me, rituals that ground me, and practices that bring me back to myself. Some days I’m deep into shadow work and self-help books. Other days I’m re-reading Twilight or walking on my walk pad while watching New Girl. Because that, my friend, is balance.

✨ What You’ll Find Here

• Honest reflections from someone doing the inner work
• Book recs from my ongoing personal happiness project
• Thoughts on self-trust, boundaries, burnout recovery, & more
• A whole lot of heart, humor, and humanity
• The occasional sparkly vampire reference, because I contain multitudes

💫 Why I Started This Blog

I wanted a space that felt like mine.
Not perfectly curated. Not for applause.
Just true.

I’m documenting this journey because it feels important—and because maybe, just maybe, you’re on a similar path too. Maybe you’ve also been the “strong one” or the “nice one” or the “put-together one” for far too long. Maybe you’re ready to stop performing and start healing. If so, I see you. You’re safe here.

So grab a cup of tea (or coffee or wine or a cozy mocktail), curl up somewhere soft, and stay awhile.

Welcome to Bailz Has a Blog. I’m really glad you’re here.

💜